I posted this on facebook. The only person who didn't provide a positive comment was a's grandmother, who (quite deliberately) misunderstood and thought I was saying my entire marriage was terrible. Deliberate misunderstandings must run in the family.
Today marks the end of a terrible chapter in my life. On the corner of _ in downtown _ stands one of the prettiest Catholic churches in the city, _. There, almost ten years ago, I began a journey. On that very same corner stands the _ County Courthouse, where that journey ended today. I have come to terms with an unfaithful and unrepentant spouse, and I pity the path she has chosen. Despite this, my daughter will still have the upbringing I committed to the day she was born. A moved out the week before Christmas, and since then, I have been the sole provider for my child. I state this truth not for adulation, moreso as a validation to myself that I can be a single dad and do a damned good job at it, as I sure had my doubts six months ago ;) I also state this to urge A's family to work to affect change in her life, for M's sake. To my friends and family, thank you for all you've done and continue to do, it is very much appreciated!
